You already know the version of your life you're outgrowing. This is the climb back to the one that's actually yours.
I am enough.
I’m choosing me.
It’s my turn.
You weren’t meant to play small. This is the moment you stop surviving your story, and start rewriting it.
Every path leads to the same place: a life that's actually yours. Start where it hurts most.
I made the mistakes so you don't have to. Whether you're inside a relationship or walking out of one, this is the work of doing love consciously: heal the pattern before it chooses your next partner, or build a partnership with someone willing to do the work beside you.
Transform love with yourself and others →
Wealth built on borrowed worth collapses the moment the applause stops. Wealth built on real capacity doesn't. The mindset, strategy, and energetics I used to go from nothing to multi-million dollar.
Build your empire →
Some transformations need to be seen to be believed, by other people and honestly by you. The full crossing: makeover, photoshoot, brand, and website. Not a costume change. A record that the old identity is gone.
Feel like a celebrity →
Bestselling Author · Documentary Producer · International Speaker to 16,000+ · Humanitarian
I didn't start here. I started in a narrow place: homeless in small-town Kansas, on and off welfare, out of options, out of the story I'd been told I was supposed to live.
What got me out wasn't a five-step plan. It was a decision, made over and over, to stop circling the thing I already knew I had to face, and to trust the next step before I could see the whole staircase.
The real work was never the money, the stage, or the credits. It was learning how to turn lead into gold: how to take the parts of my story that felt like wreckage and make them the material I built a life from.
That's what I teach. Not a hack. A climb.
Here's what I built while I still believed I had to earn my worth.
Every episode is a piece of the climb: the strategies for happiness, success, love, and well-being that got me from the narrow place to the life I actually have. No polish for polish's sake. Just the words, said out loud, that I needed someone to say to me first.
is enough.
A woman who spent her whole life chasing being chosen. Achievement after achievement, until it dropped her to her knees on a mountain she never planned to climb.
This isn't a how-to. It's a map, drawn by someone who walked it.
Wake up to the life you were meant to love.
I learned this the expensive way. What I didn't heal didn't stay behind in the last relationship. It followed me into the next one, wearing a new costume. So whether you're in it or out of it, the work is the same: do it consciously.
Stop bracing and start building. Learn to turn conflict into intimacy, and find out honestly whether your partner is willing to climb with you. Love should never ask you to disappear.
The space between partners isn't a waiting room. It's where you heal the pattern, so the next person you attract matches who you've become, not who you were.
Two people willing to do the work can transform almost anything. One person doing it alone isn't a partnership. It's a pattern.
I won't hand you a hack. I'll walk the climb with you: find the pattern, name what it's cost you, and build the self-trust to choose differently.
Some parts of the climb can't be rushed through a screen. The Sacred Retreats are built for the work that needs mountain air, sound, and other people doing their own climbing beside you.
Yoga, sound medicine, water therapy, ground healings, and more. Rest and restoration you finally give yourself permission to actually receive.
Where do you begin?
I spent years looking for love in every direction except the one that mattered. Cosmic Love is what I made once I stopped.
A blend of night-blooming jasmine, neroli, and geranium from Egypt; rose and lavender from France; ylang ylang from Madagascar; litsea from China; and clove bud from Indonesia. Pieces gathered from everywhere, the way you gather yourself back after you've been scattered across other people's rooms and other people's expectations.
One drop, one ritual, one reminder: you don't have to earn love from the outside before you're allowed to give it to yourself.
Shop Cosmic LoveI've spoken to rooms of 15 and rooms of 16,000, and the work is always the same: help people stop bracing and start listening, to the room and to themselves. Every talk is built to leave people with their own next step, not just a good feeling that fades by the parking lot.
Christy personifies success when it comes to speaking: engaging, entertaining and, most importantly, inspiring a live audience. Always from the heart, vulnerable, charming and funny. I would hire Christy to speak to any audience.
I had the privilege of having Christy speak at an event with 11,000 attendees. Her ability to move the audience to tears and have them in fits of laughter is truly remarkable. A rare gift for touching hearts.
Christy has shared stages ranging from 15 to 15,000 people, and rarely has any speaker been able to connect heart-to-heart as she does. Her warmth, humor, candor and authenticity equip audiences to accomplish great things.
“By prioritizing the inner work, I’ve become a more empowered, more fulfilled version of my best self. The Spiritual Gym workbook keeps me on track daily. If someone dedicates the time, they too will have life-changing, transformative results.”
“I cannot say enough good things about this course. It has been such a blessing. The modules on trauma, shame and life mapping tie together so nicely and really help build positivity and self love. The perfect course to get to know yourself.”
“You have always inspired the hell out of me. Your support and genuine soul mean everything. Your story and the things you’ve said in your LOL book deeply resonated with me. Love you lots.”
You don't have to make the whole climb alone. Every week I hand you the same language and practices I use with private clients, free, straight to your inbox, so you always know your next step even when you can't see the whole path.
